In some of my previous posts, I have encouraged women to think about sex more often. How have you been doing with that? Have you found that it increases your appetite? I hope so because today I am going to discuss some of the reasons that this is vital to the health of your marriage.
Number One – Sex is fun. This is some good stuff that God created partially for our enjoyment. Don’t you like to have fun with your husband? I’m thinking that he would like to have a little fun with you too.
Number Two – It creates a chemical attraction between the two of you that is actually like glue that holds you together. Unless your husband has a wandering heart, this glue will keep him loyal to you. He will be on your side. He will do anything for you.
Number Three – God says so. Read Song of Solomon or how about what Paul said “the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to pray and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control”.
How is this sitting with you? I do realize that this might be difficult for a woman to accept but I encourage you to really try to embrace this and put this into action in your marriage. I’m not a man hiding behind a woman’s name. I’m not a nymphomaniac. I am just an ordinary woman who has been humbled and is now allowing God to teach me the truth about his beautiful and loving design for marriage.