Our culture tells us that we need to build our self-esteem and love ourselves more. Our culture believes that most of our societal problems stem from a lack of self-love.
I believe that we love ourselves plenty. Most of us do not neglect our own needs or desires. Too much self-focus can begin a pattern that will continually lead you to disappointment.
Do you find yourself preoccupied with your comforts or what other people might think of you? Do you regularly find yourself disappointed in others? Very likely, you are too self-focused and have too much self-love.
Thankfully, there is a very simple solution. Get involved in helping others and turn your love outward.